What Are Some of Your Biggest Fears?

Fear has a funny way of sneaking up on us, doesn’t it? It’s that silent passenger that whispers doubts when we’re about to make a bold move or holds us back when we’re standing on the edge of something new. But what makes fear fascinating—and deeply human—is how universal yet wildly personal it is.

As the author of Diary of Clichés, I’ve spent countless hours untangling the truths buried within those everyday phrases we love to roll our eyes at. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: our fears often live in the clichés we try so hard to dismiss.

Here are some of my biggest fears—and maybe, just maybe, they’ll feel a little like your own.

1. The Fear of Not Being Enough

Ah, the classic “Am I enough?” question. It’s woven into almost everything we do.

Whether it’s in our work, relationships, or even our quiet moments with ourselves, the fear of falling short can be paralyzing.

It’s why we chase perfection, even when we know it doesn’t exist. Why we compare ourselves to others, even when their journeys look nothing like ours. It’s the voice that says, “You’re not ready,” when deep down, we know we’ll never feel ready—but we’re capable anyway.

What I’ve learned? You are enough. Not because you checked all the boxes or proved something to someone else, but because you exist. And that’s more than enough.

2. The Fear of Vulnerability

The fear of being seen for who we truly are is one that keeps us guarded. It’s what stops us from saying, “I love you” first or from showing the world our messy, imperfect selves.

But here’s the thing: life has a way of cracking us open, whether we like it or not. And it’s through those cracks that light—connection, growth, love—gets in.

Vulnerability is terrifying, yes, but it’s also transformative. Every time I sat down to write a chapter of Diary of Clichés, I felt this fear. Would people understand my words? Would they see the parts of me I was too scared to show? But then I realized: maybe that’s the whole point.

3. The Fear of Being Forgotten

This one’s a doozy, isn’t it? The fear that our existence might slip through the cracks of time, that our story won’t be remembered.

But here’s the truth I’ve come to embrace: we don’t need to be remembered by the whole world. We just need to make an impact on the people whose lives we touch.

It’s the kind word to a stranger, the laughter shared with a friend, the moments of courage we inspire in others. Those are the legacies that matter.

4. The Fear of Change

Clichés like “The only constant in life is change” exist for a reason—they’re true. But that doesn’t make change any less terrifying.

Whether it’s a career shift, the end of a relationship, or simply moving to a new city, change feels like stepping into the unknown. And as much as we might crave adventure, we also crave security.

But every change, no matter how small, is a chance to grow. To shed an old layer and discover a new part of ourselves.

5. The Fear of Wasting Time

Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt the existential dread of wondering, “Am I doing enough with my life?”

We’re conditioned to think that every moment has to be productive, meaningful, or Instagram-worthy. But here’s what I’ve realized: even the so-called “wasted” moments—lounging on the couch, daydreaming, laughing over silly jokes—are precious.

Time isn’t wasted when you’re present. And sometimes, the most mundane moments hold the most profound truths.

Turning Fear Into Fuel

The thing about fears is that they aren’t meant to paralyze us. They’re meant to guide us. Behind every fear lies a question worth exploring:

• “Am I enough?” leads us to self-acceptance.

• “Will I be hurt if I’m vulnerable?” pushes us toward deeper connections.

• “What if I’m forgotten?” reminds us to live meaningfully.

Writing Diary of Clichés was my way of facing these fears head-on. The book is a collection of stories, reflections, and truths inspired by life’s simplest phrases—those clichés we love to mock but secretly live by. And in those pages, I found a way to make peace with my fears, to see them not as enemies but as gentle reminders of what it means to be human.

Your Turn

Now, it’s your turn. What are your biggest fears? What truths do they hold for you?

If you’re ready to explore these questions—and maybe laugh a little along the way—pick up Diary of Clichés. It’s a reminder that even in our scariest, most uncertain moments, we’re never alone. And sometimes, the wisdom we need is hiding in plain sight, waiting to be uncovered.

Because at the end of the day, isn’t it all just one big, beautiful, messy cliché?